Saturday, August 4, 2012

Lifting Up in Love Without Labels

Our scripture passage this morning can be found here

I was thinking about the labels we have for one another. We are all generalized and compartmentalized based on our gender, skin color, theology, church affiliation, political affiliation, how much we make, where we live, who we hang out with, what type of music we listen too, the clothes we wear, and so many more different ways. We're divided into groups based on those things and given a label. We're either democrat, republican, independent, liberal, conservative, fundamentalist, geek, nerd, jock, hipster, redneck, country, poor, wealthy, outsiders, or insiders. And those are just a few of labels we are given and give to others.

I often use labels when I preach. I generalize a group of people into a label and speak about them in some way. Often it's to try to make a point and get us to see that the other is not our enemy and sometimes that point fails. This week, as I read Ephesians 4, I started to wonder what if we rid ourselves of those labels? What if we were truly neither republican or democrat or independent but followers of Christ? What if we were one body and one spirit in Christ?

Ephesians 4 is a pastor's dream passage, I think. It's one of the few Pauline quotes that is able to truly transcend time and context. If a church is struggling and in disarray the pastor is able to pull up Ephesians 4 and urge that his/her congregation remember they are united through Christ. The thought of being united in Christ is ironic in thought. Christ said that he had come not to bring peace but a sword. That he would divide sons from the fathers, daughters from their mothers, son in laws from their father in laws, and daughter in-laws from their mother in-laws. Our enemies would come from our own household. And the truth of Christ is that he does divide. The reality of who Christ is and what Christ commands us are things that would divide a house.

But that doesn't mean we cannot come together. We may be divided on issues and the public sees this division and believes that if Christians are unable to be in unison then what truth does their gospel hold. The reality of being a follower of Christ is that we are in constant conflict: conflict with how the world is and how the world should be; conflict with one another over the meaning of Christ's commands; conflict in reconciling what the prophets, Christ, and Paul say concerning the poor, the government, same-sex relations, greed, the oppressed, theories of atonement, wealth, war, etc. We are in constant conflict and that's okay. Conflict is not bad. It is one's reaction to conflict that matters.

Life is full of conflict. Good stories involve some form of conflict and we've been working towards a faith that believes we are supposed to live without conflict. Conflict is a part of life, a necessary part. Without conflict we tell boring safe stories that are not true. A church that says they do not experience conflict is a church that is telling a safe story. They are not living in the fullness of God. Living in the fullness of God means there is going to be conflict. There is conflict because each of us is different. Each of us has been given a different gift by God and if these gifts are gifts from God then diversity is gift as well. The list of gifts Paul gives is different from the ones in Romans and 1 Corinthians. The gifts he lists seem most likely to be a list found in church leadership. The gifts of the laity are listed in the other letters.

Cecil Sherman once said, “Of the four mentioned, at least two are rarely used in the Baptist church.”1 He said he didn't know of a Baptist church with an apostle. Once though there was a Baptist association in Virginia that made Samuel Harris an apostle. He kept the job for a couple of years before resigning saying that no person should have such authority over a Baptist congregation. “We do have prophets,” Dr. Sherman said, “Though many are not preachers.”2 The politics of being a pastor requires having a majority and prophets don't fit the role of pastor. Occasionally someone will be prophetic. They will speak for God but we do not recognize them until afterward. Then, looking back, we see them for that they were: a prophet.

We have evangelists and have pastors and teachers. Cecil observed those who have evangelists don't need them and those who don't do. Pastors and teachers are common and those offices are filled to the highest standard.

Four different gifts listed, each important and each different. Each position, each gift means we will have different personality traits but why does God create us so differently? To equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until all of us come to the unity of the faith. It takes all personality types to accomplish this goal. Being different is a gift from God and something we should celebrate not hinder or impede. We've been created differently and given different gifts because we cannot come to the unity of faith if we are all the same.

You and I need one another if are to continue telling this story God is writing. We need our diversity and our differences because if a church is full of people who are all the same then conflict remains hidden and we have not found the fullness of God. It is in our diversity, our differences we start to see the fullness of God's kingdom at work. Jesus chose twelve disciples all different from one another and often in conflict with one another. But they were chosen to help build up the church and equip the saints until all came to the unity of the faith. You and I are a part of that story and we must tolerate, no, love one another with the love of Christ if this story is going to continue to be told through the church.

You and I are as different as different can be: each one of us with our different viewpoints, politics, interpretations, theology, social standing, hair color, height, and our gifts. Yet, we have been asked to walk together and tell this never ending story God is writing for the world. If we cannot. If we cannot learn to fully love one another for our differences then we will struggle to appreciate each other. If we cannot stay in the room and have serious conversations about the tough issues, then we tell the world our gospel isn't true.

Unity is not found in majority votes or agreements but in working to achieve a common goal and that goal is to fulfill the commandments Christ has given us; and we will fulfill them together; and we will overcome the conflict together. Because if I have the story right, it's going to take all of us to do church.3 We can do it if we lift one another up without labels.


1Sherman, Cecil. “A Church and Its Diversity: Ephesians 4:1-16”, Formations Commentary: Romans-Revelation. Smyth and Helwys Publishing Inc.: Georgia, 2006 (95-96).
2Sherman, 96.
3Sherman, 97

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